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Lauren Peterson  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Lauren Peterson, 87, passed away Tuesday, June 24, 2025 at Bethany Home in Sioux Falls. SD.

Lauren was born on October 29, 1939, to Paul and Aileen Petersen. He attended Cathedral Elementary School and graduated from Cathedral High School in 1955. After beginning his career at Norwest Bank in Sioux Falls, Lauren was drafted into the United States Army, where he served honorably for two years.

Following his military service, Lauren moved to California, where he spent many years, returning to Sioux Falls in 1986. Upon his return, he worked for Waste Management and later served as the manager of Starlite Mobile Home Parks until his retirement.

Lauren is survived by one sister: Teresa Castilli, Tampa Bay, FL; one brother: Jerry T. Peterson, Sioux Falls, SD; one brother-in-law: William Frankman, Elk River, MN; nieces: Melissa Frankman, Elk River, MN and Angie (Jeff) Westwick, Sioux Falls, SD; nephews: Bill (Renee) Frankman III, Omaha, NE, Steve (Keri) Ament and Dan Ament, Sioux Falls, SD; great-nieces and nephews: B.J., Nathan, Kristen, and Caleb Frankman, Trever and Owen Frankman, newborn Quintin Frankman. Brigette, Ian, Aya, Nevaeh, Mariah, and Jonathon Ament. Lauren was preceded in death by his parents; sisters: Anne, and Mary Lou; and brother in-law: Al Ament.

In honor of his wishes, there will be no formal services. barnett-lewis.com

Stuart Petersen  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Stuart Bradley Petersen (67), passed away peacefully in his sleep on Friday, May 30, 2025 in his Sioux Falls, SD home. Stuart was born on January 13, 1958 in Sioux Falls, South Dakota at Sioux Valley Hospital to Clifford and Iona Petersen. He grew up in Sioux Falls and graduated from Washington High School 1976.

Stuart later attended Motorcycle Mechanics Institute in Phoenix, Arizona and received his motorcycle technician degree in 1991. Stuart was united in marriage to Jill Teal in 1976. He adopted their son Jeremiah in 1977 and raised their daughters, Amanda and Katrina in Sioux Falls, SD until divorcing in 1991.

Stuart was a true-blue kind of guy! He worked for Coca-Cola Bottling Company from about 1977 until 1991. He went to MMI and returned to work for Sigler for a few years. Stuart ran his own small engine repair business, “Grumpy’s” in Redfield, South Dakota. He eventually returned to Sioux Falls and must have liked Sigler well enough he stayed a total of 16 years.

Stuart married Debra Zimpel in 2014; however, they shared their life together for closer to 17 years in Sioux Falls until his passing.

Stuart had a knack for fixing just about anything. From wrenching on Harleys, to hooking up stereo systems to home construction, he could fix it on the fly like MacGyver.

Stuart had a love for fishing and always seemed to have pet birds, dogs and cats throughout his life. Stuart was quick witted! He gave some fun nicknames to people because that’s how he remembered them!

Stuart is survived by his wife: Debra; daughters: Amanda (Lucas) DelaCruz and Katrina (Austin) Winter; 7 grandchildren; brother: Stephen (Daina) Petersen; a nephew and a niece. Stuart is preceded in death by his father: Clifford; mother: Iona; and son: Jeremiah.

There will be no services. Cards for the family may be sent to Barnett-Lewis Funeral Home.

Lillian Finn  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Lillian Liola Marie Ament, Dykstra, Hickenbothum, Finn, the oldest of eight born to Lawrence and Lena Ament on February 12, 1926. Lillian passed February 12, 2025 on her 99 Birthday. She grew up around the Gedis area before they moved to Sioux Falls. Her friends and family called her Lee. 

She is preceded in death by her parents and 7 siblings: Bernard, Lucillie, Eddie, Ann, Herbert, Kenneth, Alvin; daughter: Laurie Bondora; husbands: Ed Dykstra, Mel Hickenbothum, and David Finn. She is survived by her daughters: Kathleen Bush, Beverly Merritt, Janet Crofutt, and Julie Tengel; son: Edward Dykstra; 10 step-children; 14 grandchildren; 17 great-grandchildren, and 3 great-great- grandchildren.

Lillian was an avid gardener that loved growing all kinds of flowers, but her favorite was roses. She also loved Butterflies. She also found time to bowl and attend annual bowling tournaments. She learned how to golf after retirement for exercise, not wanting to use a golf cart. She also loved to dance. During the winter when she couldn't be outside, she would crochet blankets for her children and grandchildren. she wintered in McAllen, Texas for many years.

A Memorial Mass will be Friday, June 13, 2025 at St. Lambert Church. 

Kathy Jean McCollar  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Kathy Jean McCollar passed away peacefully on June 7, 2025, at Ava’s Hospice House in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, at the age of 74. Her passing marks the loss of a deeply loved woman whose warmth, strength, and steady grace touched all who knew her.

Kathy was born on September 7, 1950, in Aberdeen, South Dakota, to Lloyd and Marjorie (Moulds) McLain, and grew up near Turton. She graduated from high school in Northville, South Dakota, and went on to attend Nettleton College in 1968, laying the foundation for a life marked by service, kindness, and dedication. Kathy had an incredible work ethic and was selfless in all her endeavors, always placing the needs of others before her own and giving her time and energy with genuine generosity.

On June 10, 1972, she married the love of her life, Gary McCollar, in Brentford, South Dakota. Together they built a life filled with love, family, and shared adventures.

She dedicated 44 years to the Good Samaritan Center, where she served as the Activity Director. Through her work, Kathy brought joy, companionship, and compassion to countless residents — creating a sense of belonging and comfort in every room she entered. Her creativity and care left an enduring mark on the community she served so faithfully.

A talented musician, Kathy was a beautiful singer and gifted piano player. She often entertained the residents with her music, lifting spirits and filling hearts. Whether leading a sing-along or playing softly for reflection, her music was one of the many ways she gave of herself.

Outside of her work, Kathy was known for her extraordinary green thumb and her love of the outdoors. Her flowerbeds bloomed with vibrant color, and her tomato garden was legendary among friends and family. Each fall, her tomato crop was especially impressive; the product of patience, care, and pride.

Kathy and Gary shared a strong and loving partnership, not just in marriage but in the activities they cherished. They were true companions in both fishing and hunting, spending countless peaceful mornings and crisp autumn days side by side in nature. One of Kathy’s favorite places was her cabin at West Whitlock Resort, where many of her happiest memories were made. She held that spot dear, and it brought her peace, joy, and time with the people she loved most.

Kathy also had a special gift for making holidays magical. Whether it was Christmas, Thanksgiving, or any family gathering, she brought people together with warmth, thoughtful details, and a deep sense of celebration. Her home was a place of tradition, laughter, and lasting memories; a reflection of the love she poured into everything she did.

Kathy is survived by her devoted husband of nearly 53 years: Gary McCollar; her daughter: Jodi (Marty) Anfinson; her grandchildren: Dustin (Caitlyn) Guischer, Lucas Milne, Weston Payfer, Hailey Milne, Jensen Hoefert, Mackenzie Meister, and Jessica Behrends; and her seven cherished great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister: Linda (Keith) Siebrecht; and her brother: Ron (Linda) McLain. She was preceded in death by her beloved daughters, Sheila Walters and Cristy Payfer; her father, Lloyd McLain; and her mother, Marjorie Kittlesland; whose memories Kathy carried in her heart every day.

Kathy’s nurturing spirit, gentle humor, and deep love for family, music, nature, and tradition will be forever remembered and deeply missed.

Visitation will be Thursday, June 12, 5:00 PM at Barnett-Lewis Funeral Home with a Scripture Vigil at 6:30 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be Friday, June 13, 10:30 AM at the Cathedral of St. Joseph. 

Robert “Bob” Clyde Mulhair  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Robert “Bob” Clyde Mulhair, age 87, died June 2, 2025 in Arizona. 

Bob was born February 26, 1938 in Sioux Falls, SD, to Robert and Maxine (Drew) Mulhair. Bob graduated from Cathedral High School and proudly served his country in the United States Air Force, including a year stationed in Korea. Following his honorable discharge, Bob returned to Sioux Falls and attended Nettleton Business College, after which he joined the family business full-time. 

On August 17, 1963, Bob married Delna Dykstra in Sioux Falls. Together they built a life rooted in community service, and travel. Bob was deeply involved with civic organizations. He was an active member of the Sioux Falls Jaycees, and rose through the ranks serving many local and state leadership roles. He also contributed his time and talents to the Elks Club, Toastmasters, the Knights of Columbus and the Sioux Falls Noon Sertoma Club; serving as president and was a lifetime member of the Sertoma Club. 

Bob took great joy in keeping in touch with his Cathedral High School classmates, acting as class historian and sending out the “haps” of his fellow mates with his “CHS Reflections” emails. He and Delna often traveled to visit his classmates around the country, maintaining close ties and friendships across decades. One of Bob’s proudest accomplishments was organizing the largest high school reunion in South Dakota history, uniting the 30th reunions of Cathedral High School and Washington High School. 

In Arizona, Bob continued his community involvement by co-chairing the Sioux Falls Area Luncheon Club alongside Delna.

Bob loved the outdoors and especially downhill skiing, motorcycle riding, and boating. In retirement, he and Delna enjoyed a life of leisure by splitting their time between summers at Acorn Ridge Estates, Lake Okoboji and winters in Gold Canyon, Arizona, as cherished members of the Montesa “snowbird” community. They treasured the friendships and memories made in both places. 

Grateful for having shared Bob’s life are his loving family, wife: Delna; son: Todd (Alisa) Minneapolis, MN; daughter: Lynn Mulhair; grandson: Andrew Jarman, Tea, SD; brother: Dick (Judy) Mulhair, Brookings, SD; sister in-law: Geraldine Berg, Marion, SD; and many nieces and nephews.

Visitation will be Friday, June 13, 9:00 AM at Barnett-Lewis Funeral Home with a Funeral Service at 10:00 AM. Burial will follow at St. Michael Cemetery with Full Military Rites. In lieu of flowers, donate to your charity of choice.

Linda May  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Linda May, a devoted mother, proud grandmother, and treasured friend, passed away peacefully on April 11, 2025, in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, at the age of 79. She was born on June 19, 1945, in Algona, Iowa, to Thomas H. Williamson and Dolores E. Otto.

Linda grew up in a loving home and graduated from Fort Dodge High School in Iowa, carrying with her a lifelong spirit of warmth, resilience, and compassion. In 1962, she married Michael Larson in Fort Dodge, IA. Two years later, in July 1964, she married Robert May in Palm Springs, California. Though their marriage eventually ended, Linda and Robert remained lifelong friends—an enduring bond built on mutual respect and shared memories.

In 1988, Linda and Robert embarked on a new chapter together when they purchased the Lyn Mar Resort at Lake Poinsett in Arlington, South Dakota. There, they created a haven of joy and connection, welcoming guests and family alike into a space filled with laughter and love.

After selling the resort, Linda spent more than 20+ years working at Savers, where her kindness, work ethic, and cheerful presence earned her the admiration of coworkers and customers. A nurturing soul, Linda had a special gift for making others feel seen and valued—especially the neighborhood children, who gravitated toward her warmth and joyful spirit.

She found peace outdoors, whether basking in the sun in the pool or gathering around the fire with loved ones under the stars. Her gentle laugh, welcoming heart, and unwavering love will be forever remembered by all who were blessed to know her.

At the time of her passing, Linda was living in Sioux Falls, SD surrounded by memories, friendship, and the comfort of family.

Linda is survived by her brother, Neil (John) Williamson; daughter Tracy Lunde; granddaughters Brittany May (Joseph) and Jessica Calhoon was preceded in death by her parents, Dolores and Thomas Williamson; sister, Caroline Cook; brother, Alan Williamson; son, Todd May; and kitties Gizmo and Ariel.

Carolyn Ann Crider  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Carolyn Ann Crider, 67, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family May 20, 2025 in Sioux Falls, South Dakota. Carolyn was born January 29, 1957. Carolyn was born in Arkansas, to Jesse and Vera Crider. Carolyn was married to Michael Reifsnider, and have a son: Adam Bartholomew. Carolyn is survived by two sisters: Rosie Miller and Alta Faddis; and three brothers: Larry Crider, Ruben Crider and Jerry Crider.   

Private family services were held. 

Porter Williams  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Porter Richard Williams, age 82, died May 25, 2025 in Sioux Falls, South Dakota. He was born July 21, 1942 in Atchinson, Kansas. At HIS request no service will be held. He will be honored and remembered at the Juneteenth Freedom Day 2025 event in Sioux Falls, SD

Monsignor Stephen Thomas Barnett  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Monsignor Stephen Thomas Barnett passed away peacefully on May 23, 2025, at the age of 81 in Sioux Falls, SD. He was surrounded by the compassionate care of the staff at Dougherty Hospice House and the loving presence of his cherished brother, Tim Barnett. Although other family members were not able to be there due to distance and the sudden decline in his health, we are deeply grateful that Tim was by his side. Steves’ siblings were with him in spirit and prayer during his final moments. We are also grateful to Father Chuck Cimpl for comforting Tim and being with Msgr. Steve at the hour of his death.

Born on March 6, 1944, to Margaret and Charles Barnett, Steve was the sixth of eleven children. He proudly referred to himself as “the Middle Man,” delighting in the balance of three older brothers, two older sisters, three younger brothers, and two younger sisters. This unique position in the family led him to believe he was destined to be the “boss of the little kids”; a role he embraced wholeheartedly during his childhood in the North End of Sioux Falls in the 1950s. 

From an early age, Steve’s interests foreshadowed his future calling. At around 10, he began his “priestly” role, using dish towels for vestments and a dresser as an altar, with red Kool-Aid for wine and squished bread for communion hosts. His vocation deepened as he became an altar boy at St. Joseph’s Cathedral, eventually serving as the head junior master of ceremonies on Holy Days.

After completing his freshman through junior years at Cathedral High School, he graduated from O’Gorman High School in 1962 as part of its inaugural class, where he was affectionately known as “Ringo.” He actively participated in football, basketball, chorus, drama, and was elected Senior Class President. 

Following high school, Steve attended St. Mary’s College in Winona, MN, earning a degree in Philosophy in 1966. He continued his studies at St. Paul Seminary, graduating in 1970 with a Master’s degree in Theology, and in 1978, he received a Master’s in Educational Administration from the University of South Dakota. During the summers of 1983-86, he attended Pope John XXIII Medical Moral Research Center in St. Louis, MO, Fordham University in New York, and the University of Notre Dame, ultimately receiving a Master’s degree in Medical Ethics.

Steve was ordained a priest on May 29, 1970, at St. Joseph Cathedral. From 1970-78 he served at St. Lambert’s Parish and as Assistant Principal at O’Gorman High School while also serving as Chaplain at the State Penitentiary from 1970-75. He was Principal of Roncalli High School in Aberdeen from1978-1982. 

Msgr. Steve then began 32 years in parish ministry serving as Pastor at parishes in Pierre, Aberdeen, Mitchell, Sioux Falls Cathedral, Montrose, Humboldt, Clear Lake, Estelline, and Gary before concluding his pastoral service in Plankinton and Mt. Vernon. In addition to his duties as Pastor, he also served for 20 years as advisor to the Bishop on medical ethics. In 1996, while serving as Pastor of the Cathedral, he was honored with the title of Rt. Rev. Monsignor by Pope John Paul II, recognizing his distinguished service to the Church.     

After retiring at the age of 70, he continued to assist fellow priests, stepping in as a substitute whenever needed at parishes across the diocese. He fostered a special connection with people of all ages at St. Mary’s Church in Sioux Falls, where he was a dedicated parishioner.

During his final pastoral assignment in Plankinton, Msgr. Steve welcomed Lily, a loving and loyal Dachshund who added immense joy and companionship to his life. Their bond was evident to all who witnessed their lively conversations, especially when treats were involved. Although he deeply mourned the loss of Lily in 2019, he found comfort and solace in his ministry, and in the love of family and friends.

In addition to his pastoral duties, Msgr. Steve served on various community boards, including New Beginnings Center, Capitol University Center, Mitchell Area Adjustment Training Center, Berakhah House, and Ethics Committees for Presentation Health System and Benedictine Health System. 

Msgr. Steve was known for his inspirational homilies, beautiful singing, and resonant voice. He loved to laugh, to cheer on his favorite sports teams and to offer coaching advice to youth, professional athletes, and coaches alike. A gentle giant, he embodied love and compassion, especially for those who were hurting. He was a comforting presence, not only for joyful celebrations, but also in the most challenging moments of people’s lives. He had a gift for delivering a well-timed joke, and he understood that at certain times, silence and presence could be the greatest gifts. 

Throughout his 55 years as a priest, Msgr. Steve touched the lives of many people through his spiritual direction, sacramental ministry, and community service. A faithful servant, he embraced his passing with peace, leaving behind a legacy of love that will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Msgr. Steve was preceded in death by his beloved parents Charles and Margaret Barnett, Sr.; siblings: Charles (Lenore) Barnett, Jr., Frank (Sheryl) Barnett, Peggy (Tom) Barry, Fr. Larry Barnett, and Loretta (Sam) Barada. He is survived by siblings: Pete (Donna-Rae) Barnett, Solano Beach, CA; Maxine Barnett, Sauk Rapids, MN; Katie (John) Baldwin, Yankton, SD; Tim (Sally) Barnett, Harrisburg, SD; and Denny (Liz) Barnett, Shawnee, KS; and a large extended family of nieces, nephews, cousins, and cherished friends.

A Rosary will be said at 4:45 PM with visitation at 5:00 PM, Monday, June 2 at the Cathedral of St. Joseph with a Scripture Vigil at 6:00 PM. The Mass of Christian Burial will be 1:00 PM on Tuesday, June 3, at the Cathedral of St. Joseph with burial at St. Michael Cemetery, followed by a luncheon at the Cathedral of St. Joseph.

In the spirit of Monsignor Steve's passion for serving, the family hopes you will volunteer or donate to a charity of your choice.

Services will be live-streamed at: 

https://youtube.com/live/xX8vhaVDR1g

Ronald V. Treloar  - Share this obit - Print this obit

Ronald V. Treloar, resident of Sioux Falls, South Dakota, passed away peacefully on April 26, 2025, at Sanford Hospice Cottages. He was 83 years old. He was born on February 23, 1942, to Vernon and Ferne Treloar, Ron grew up in the West Sioux neighborhood, where he made lifelong friends and found a sense of community. 

Ron shared a devoted marriage with Kathleen F. Schmit until her passing in 2018. Together, they owned and operated Omar’s Market, a beloved local business known especially for its great meat. There they not only worked side by side but also raised their family with love and dedication.

Ron is survived by his children: Ronald Treloar, II and Angela Youngdahl (Ben); and his grandchildren: Iris, Lila, Greg, and John. He also held a special place in his heart for his “extra” grandchildren: Hannah, Charlie, and Oasis whose Wednesday visits brought him great joy. His beloved cat, Lassie, was a constant and comforting presence.

He is remembered with love by many siblings, nieces, and extended family members. The family is deeply grateful to all who loved and cared for Ron over the years, especially during the difficult final weeks of his life.

Ron’s legacy lives on in the laughter he shared, the stories he told, and the people around him he loved so fiercely. He is now at peace, reunited with Kathleen. The loss is great but the love is deep. Miss you Papa.

A Memorial Service to honor Ron’s life will be held at Barnett-Lewis Funeral Home Saturday, May 24. Visitation will be 9:00 AM-11:00 AM Memorial Service from 11:00 AM – 12:00 PM. A light lunch reception will follow.