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Kathy Jean McCollar
06-07-2025

Kathy Jean McCollar passed away peacefully on June 7, 2025, at Ava’s Hospice House in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, at the age of 74. Her passing marks the loss of a deeply loved woman whose warmth, strength, and steady grace touched all who knew her.

Kathy was born on September 7, 1950, in Aberdeen, South Dakota, to Lloyd and Marjorie (Moulds) McLain, and grew up near Turton. She graduated from high school in Northville, South Dakota, and went on to attend Nettleton College in 1968, laying the foundation for a life marked by service, kindness, and dedication. Kathy had an incredible work ethic and was selfless in all her endeavors, always placing the needs of others before her own and giving her time and energy with genuine generosity.

On June 10, 1972, she married the love of her life, Gary McCollar, in Brentford, South Dakota. Together they built a life filled with love, family, and shared adventures.

She dedicated 44 years to the Good Samaritan Center, where she served as the Activity Director. Through her work, Kathy brought joy, companionship, and compassion to countless residents — creating a sense of belonging and comfort in every room she entered. Her creativity and care left an enduring mark on the community she served so faithfully.

A talented musician, Kathy was a beautiful singer and gifted piano player. She often entertained the residents with her music, lifting spirits and filling hearts. Whether leading a sing-along or playing softly for reflection, her music was one of the many ways she gave of herself.

Outside of her work, Kathy was known for her extraordinary green thumb and her love of the outdoors. Her flowerbeds bloomed with vibrant color, and her tomato garden was legendary among friends and family. Each fall, her tomato crop was especially impressive; the product of patience, care, and pride.

Kathy and Gary shared a strong and loving partnership, not just in marriage but in the activities they cherished. They were true companions in both fishing and hunting, spending countless peaceful mornings and crisp autumn days side by side in nature. One of Kathy’s favorite places was her cabin at West Whitlock Resort, where many of her happiest memories were made. She held that spot dear, and it brought her peace, joy, and time with the people she loved most.

Kathy also had a special gift for making holidays magical. Whether it was Christmas, Thanksgiving, or any family gathering, she brought people together with warmth, thoughtful details, and a deep sense of celebration. Her home was a place of tradition, laughter, and lasting memories; a reflection of the love she poured into everything she did.

Kathy is survived by her devoted husband of nearly 53 years: Gary McCollar; her daughter: Jodi (Marty) Anfinson; her grandchildren: Dustin (Caitlyn) Guischer, Lucas Milne, Weston Payfer, Hailey Milne, Jensen Hoefert, Mackenzie Meister, and Jessica Behrends; and her seven cherished great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister: Linda (Keith) Siebrecht; and her brother: Ron (Linda) McLain. She was preceded in death by her beloved daughters, Sheila Walters and Cristy Payfer; her father, Lloyd McLain; and her mother, Marjorie Kittlesland; whose memories Kathy carried in her heart every day.

Kathy’s nurturing spirit, gentle humor, and deep love for family, music, nature, and tradition will be forever remembered and deeply missed.

Visitation will be Thursday, June 12, 5:00 PM at Barnett-Lewis Funeral Home with a Scripture Vigil at 6:30 PM. Mass of Christian Burial will be Friday, June 13, 10:30 AM at the Cathedral of St. Joseph.